There are days when I wonder if my concern for others is genuine or just a secret longing for people to notice my own struggles. I feel guilty because sometimes it seems like I'm more focused on gathering sympathy than offering real compassion. I want love and support, especially from my fellow believers, yet I often fail to show that same love in return. Why should I expect others to carry my burdens when I’m not willing to carry theirs? Galatians 6:7 (NIV) reminds me, “Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows.” This verse hits my heart because I see how I reap the coldness I sow. If I’m distant and self-absorbed, I shouldn’t act surprised when people respond in kind. It’s a humbling reality check to stop pointing fingers at everyone else and instead open my own hands in genuine service. I think about Jesus facing insults, hatred, and rejection. Yet He still chose the cross for the very people who were shouting for His death. Luke 23:34 (NIV) says, “Jesus said, ‘Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing.’ And they divided up his clothes by casting lots.” Imagine forgiving those who are actively mocking you. It’s mind-blowing that He loved so radically. How can I withhold kindness from someone who’s just a little unpleasant when Christ showed mercy to those who literally wanted Him gone? Matthew 5:44 (NIV) challenges me too: “But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you,”—no half measures, no excuses. It’s much easier to say than do. I wish I could say I’m already living out that verse flawlessly, but the truth is, I have a long way to go. Still, even if I’m far from perfection, I know the Holy Spirit can soften the rough edges of my heart if I submit to God one day at a time. I urge others to “be a light,” but I struggle to shine myself. I realize it’s not about waiting around for someone else to spark a change or initiate the love I crave. Instead, it’s on me to step up, to sow the seeds of grace, forgiveness, and genuine concern. It’s a challenge that requires prayer and a willingness to die to selfishness daily. I’m not there yet, but I’m asking the Lord for strength, and I’d cherish your prayers as well. May we remember that we love because He first loved us (1 John 4:19, NIV). If we long for warmth from others, we should show warmth first. Let’s pursue a deeper reflection on our motives and ask God to cleanse us from selfish desires. He’s rich in mercy, and the journey toward Christlike love is possible with His help. I’m praying I can sow better seeds and humbly trust God for the harvest. Would you pray for me, too? #Faith #Reflections #ChristianLife #LoveFirst #NeedGrace #ChangeBeginsWithMe