The only thing missing from the family scene was the couple’s youngest child, 20-month-old Shiloh, Life & Style reports.

In fact, leaving behind Shiloh, who was finally spotted out in public with Angelina in New Orleans on Dec. 22, has become a sad pattern with Brad and Angelina. And in a shocking new interview, Angie provides possible insight into why, to her, Shiloh doesn’t seem to be a full member of the Jolie-Pitt clan.

“Shiloh looks like Brad,” she tells the U.K.’s Look magazine. “She’s almost going to be the outcast in the family because she’s so blond and blue-eyed.”