"I don't think it's meant to be, / For she loves the work more than she does me/ And, honestly, at 23, I would probably love my work more than I did she / So we ain't we, it's me and her / That's what she prefers."

Still gossips are already planning hairstyles for the event .

Knowles, Jay and some Def Jam executives were at STK on West 12th Street on Saturday talking about the four-day "party" - but insiders say it will be more than a birthday celebration reports PageSix.

"Beyonce is throwing Jay a four-day birthday party, but it's really a wedding," said one source. Guests, including family and close friends, were told to have passport applications filed by last Friday so they can attend the bash on a yacht in St. Barts. But insiders said the guests will also be ferried over to Anguilla for the wedding at Cap Juluca, a five-star resort with Moorish villas. Another spy said Knowles and Jay-Z had toured the site earlier this year and approved it for their nuptials.